Things between you and your spouse have not been going well. Every slight, every lecture and every deliberate snub stings. This is not what you expected to happen in your marriage. Is divorce inevitable? Well, some psychologists consider four key behavioral signs that...
2 reasons a parent may be declared unfit for custody
In most cases, the court encourages an arrangement when both parents are actively involved in the upbringing of their child following the divorce. When parents cooperate and come up with a joint custody and parenting plan that benefits everyone, both parents and the...
Strategies for peaceful email communication with your co-parent
If you and your co-parent have a difficult time communicating amicably about the kids in the early months after your break-up in person or via phone, you may decide that it’s best to stick to written communication. Some co-parents find that texting can be almost as...
3 reasons to draw up a prenuptial agreement
Creating a prenuptial agreement may not be high on your list of priorities if you are getting married. However, just like an insurance policy, safety net or reserve parachute, you can be pretty grateful you have one if you ever need to use it. If you are wavering on...
What’s in a parenting plan?
A parenting plan is one of the most critical documents parents create after a divorce. It can also be one of the more confusing and contentious agreements, which is why it can be helpful to know what is typically in them if you are a divorcing parent. Crucial elements...
Can I stop my ex from moving away with my child?
If your ex wants to relocate to another state or country with your child, you may be scared and very angry. Under these circumstances, it can be crucial to know whether you can stop them and what you can do to protect your parental rights and your relationship with...
Are second marriages destined for divorce?
Going through a divorce can mean a chance to start a new chapter. In many cases, a first marriage can be a learning experience. While it can be emotionally challenging to go through a divorce, there may come a time when you are ready to take a chance on a new...
Reframing the discussion: Shared parenting
Custody issues can take the form of a battle, with parents each trying to "win." However, there are other ways to approach these situations. If you are dealing with custody, consider the following reasons and ways to reframe this discussion in a more cooperative...
When you suspect your ex is hiding income in the divorce
Divorce can be a stressful, emotionally draining process. This is especially true in cases where one spouse is the breadwinner – or earns the vast majority of the household income – while the other spouse is left in the dark about couple’s true financial situation. In...
Setting standards with the nanny during divorce
A nanny becomes a part of the family once they’ve been with you for a while. If the parents end up going through a divorce, the situation will impact the children and the nanny. There are several things that you need to think about if you’re divorcing and have...